Posts Tagged ‘friends to lovers’

The Worst Bad Dates

At what point would you give up on finding love? Or at least take a break from it? A handful of bad dates? Six months’ worth? A year? And how horrific would they have to be for you to finally throw in the towel and declare yourself off the market and on a break from it all?

Those were all thoughts that went through my mind when Olivia’s character from Plus One first came to me. After that, I started getting bombarded with all these absolutely horrendous dates that she’d been on. There was the cat pee guy. The plumber who discussed his work over dinner. The thirty-five year old who lived in his mother’s basement and brought porn along for their first date.

Wretched, right?

Now, I’ll admit—I’m not the authority on this subject. I’ve never really had a bad date. In my defense, I’ve been with my husband since we were wee little babies at the age of fourteen.

But still.

I hear stories—awful, horrible and (forgive me) sometimes hilarious stories—from friends who are fully immersed in the oftentimes dreadful dating scene.

But even with all these bad dates, you can’t give up hope, right? There still has to be that glimmer in your subconscious that thinks, Maybe it will be different with this one… Otherwise, everyone everywhere would have given up on dating a long, long time ago.

And, yeah, I’m a hardcore romantic, in case that wasn’t clear.

Once Olivia’s character was fleshed out completely in my mind, I wanted her to have hit rock bottom on the dating scene. To be completely fed up with the crap that goes along with it. And I wanted her to have kissed a lot of frogs before giving her a chance at her prince. (In case it wasn’t obvious, Ian is one hell of a prince.)

But I think the one thing that worked for Olivia was, even when she’d declared herself on a break from all things men and dating, in her heart, she didn’t give up. Even though she was taking a break from the true dating scene, she was open to the possibility. Of a connection. Of meeting someone when it seemed like she’d gone through the entire state population of Minnesota in her quest for her prince. Of love.

And, really, that’s what it’s all about, right?

What was your worst date? And did anything ever come of it? Post in the comments and on Wednesday I’ll pick one winner to be the happy recipient of a shiny $10 gift card to your choice of e-book retailer.

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Olivia hates the singles scene, so when her best guy friend, Ian, offers to be her plus one to a series of weddings she has to attend, she agrees. Although she doesn’t want to complicate their lifelong friendship, she can’t pass up the chance to have a steady date without the dating drama. What she doesn’t expect is to now find Ian so incredibly sexy.

When Ian sees his old friend Olivia dolled up for wedding #1, the boyhood crush he once nurtured transforms into smoldering attraction. It doesn’t take long for their no-strings arrangement to turn physical. But as Olivia’s desire to stay “just friends” becomes clear, Ian’s feelings are deepening. In the time they have together, how will Ian convince Olivia that one plus one can make for a lifelong pair?

Plus One available for purchase at: Carina Press | Amazon | Barnes & Noble | iTunes

Brighton bio pic Brighton Walsh is a storyteller at heart. Whether through words or pictures, she’s been weaving tales for as long as she can remember. After decades of cultivating her writing, she finally decided to give life to the voices in her head and set forth to write her first novella. Love is her first love, and writing about it is a dream come true. When she’s not writing, she can be found with her nose buried in a steamy book or partaking in some retail therapy. She lives in the Midwest with her swoony husband and two energetic kids who (fortunately) know nothing about the naughty things she puts down on paper. She frolics around online frequently and loves to chat, so stop by and say hi. website | twitter | facebook | pinterest | goodreads

What I Did On My Summer Vacation

Everyone needs a place to get away from it all.

For me, that place was my grandparent’s cottage in Muskoka.

Otter Lake

Muskoka, for those of you who aren’t Canadians or cottagers, is the quintessential wildness/getaway place.   It’s been painted and visited and touristed since the late nineteenth century and made famous by the Group of Seven.   In a nutshell, lots of granite rocks. Ice blue lakes. Big stands of trees.  Rinse.  Lather.   Repeat. :)

Toss in a few shiny celebrities and million dollar four-season retreats, a smattering of skidoos and as many long weekends as possible and voila – you have Muskoka.

Otter Lake

Except that the cottage I went to wasn’t like that.  It wasn’t big.  It wasn’t winterized.  It wasn’t fancy or trendy or anything much at all.  Just three small bedrooms, a common room with an enormous granite fireplace and in the loft above, a steep pitched roof you invariably bumped your head on.  For a long time, there was no TV, only a radio, a dart board and some really old board games that were always missing a few crucial pieces.

But the view was incomparable and I visited every summer from the time I was a small infant.  I learned to swim in the lake and helped my grandmother fill the hummingbird feeders.  I fished with my grandfather and explored every nook and cranny of the surrounding area.  My dad taught me to canoe there.  And now, with kids of my own, we go every summer to terrorize the fish and pick raspberries along the roadside and eat licorice on the dock.

Otter Lake

Everyone needs that place.  A place where they can simply escape and be themselves.

So I suppose it’s hardly surprising then that I set my latest book, “Something So Right” in Muskoka, too.  After all, Lily Carver, the heroine, has a real need to escape.  Leaving a horribly toxic relationship, Lily craves safety and she finds it in the North with her childhood friend, Sam Denning.  But she learns that living in a retreat doesn’t mean you can go on holiday from your life or your emotions.  Where ever you go, try as you might, they go with you.

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Sam and Lily have a space to get away (fictionally speaking :) ) where they can start to explore the sparks that might turn their friendship into something more.  Where do you go to get away from it all?  To recharge and reconnect?  Do you have a special place that holds memories like the cottage?  What place is it and why?

Elyse Mady is the author of “Something So Right”, “Learning Curves” and “The Debutante’s Dilemma”, all with Carina Press.  Upcoming books include “The White Swan Affair” (2012).  She blogs at www.elysemady.com.  You can also find her on Twitter at @elysemady and Goodreads.

In addition to her writing commitments, Elyse also teaches film and literature at a local community college. In her free time she enjoys (well, enjoys might be too strong a word – perhaps pursues with dogged determination would be better) never ending renovations on their century home with her intrepid husband and two boys.

With her excellent writerly imagination, she one day dreams of topping the NY Times Bestseller’s List and reclaiming her pre-kid body without the bother of either sit-ups or the denunciation of ice-cream